Nemesis has been appearing for me lately, in readings about different subjects. I roll my eyes and huff. I do not like this card. Perhaps because I associate it with divine punishment, and I am afraid there's still more to come - haven't I felt enough pain? But according to Barbara Moore, this Nemesis isn't all about punishment, but also about reaping what you sow, be it positive or negative.
This card warns me against wishing I could make the other feel a bit of the pain I have felt. Although the other person didn't do anything evil per se... well, they hurt me. Their choice, though rightful, hurt me, killed a bit of me, changed me against my wish. And I keep hoping that somehow they will get to taste a bit of what I have tasted, so it'll feel a little less unfair. But Nemesis shakes her head and says: "this is not necessary". She tells me that it's not in my hands to get any justice... that while another person hurt me, my own choices in the past brought me here. When I got into this, I accepted the risk of being hurt.